Respect your Past.

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 Every second you dwell on the past you steal from your future. Every energy you spend on your problem you take away from finding your solutions and thinking about all those things that you wish has happened or didn't happen to you or you didn't want but happened to you like a breakup, accident, death, or losing someone very close to you, really fill us with guilt, regret, anxiety, and sadness but it is actually blocking all the things you want to happen from entering into your life. Given the timeless truth that holds that you become what you think about all day long, it makes no sense to worry about past events or mistake unless you want to experience them for a second time but we know  there are some problems and some memories which are hard to accept and face so for that give yourself some time there are 5 stages of grief a person go through,

  • shock
  • denial
  • anger 
  • depression or anxiety
  • acceptance 
every person before becoming strong about the memory goes through these stages every person has their own pattern but it is good to accept the things and facts as early as possible otherwise they will haunt you for a longer time, and use the lesson you have learned from your past to rise to a whole new level of awareness and enlightenment.

Life's greatest setbacks reveal life's biggest opportunities. As the ancient thinker, Euripides noted" There is in the worst of fortune the best chances for a happy change." If you have suffered more than your fair share of difficulties in life, perhaps you are being prepared to serve some greater purpose that will require you to be equipped with the wisdom you have acquired through your trials. Remember, happy people have often experienced as much adversity as those who are unhappy but they choose to overcome those adversities and choose to be happy with a stronger mindset and commitment you can also acquire that state in life.

No person in this world has figured out everything about life, everyone is messed up so it is better to enjoy what we have now, Present is called The Present for a reason as this is the gift you have right now not the future not the past, allow the past baggage to fall up a little forgive yourself for all the mistakes you have made and consider yourself guilty for and forgive the people with whom you are holding any grudges as they are a human being too like you so they can make mistakes too like you give yourself enough time to heal from the past memories and let go of all the things that are suffocating you.

And understand that if you have failed more than others, there is a very good chance you are living more completely than others as you are stronger and more experienced than others, Those who take more chances, and risks and dare to be more and do more than others naturally experience more failures. But personally, I would rather have the bravery to try something and then fail than never have tried it at all. 

We should prefer spending the rest of our life expanding our knowledge, and experience than living a life of mediocrity, security, and commonness. That's the essence of true life. As Herodotus noted so sagely, "It is better by noble boldness to run the risk of being subject to half of the evils we anticipate than to remain in cowardly listlessness for fear of what may happen." Or we can say that Success is to be measured not so much by the position that one has reached in life or by how much money he/she is making but based on how many obstacles they have overcome while trying to be in that position and how much they have evolved themselves.

Hope you have found this blog relevant and liked it next week I will come up with another new topic related to basic and common theories of life we all face,

Thank you for reading, I come up with weekly blogs every Saturday!

                                                     


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  1. shishirOctober 21, 2022 at 8:23 PM

    Learning from past and moving ahead is the key

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  2. TaxakOctober 22, 2022 at 4:45 AM

    Accurately relatable article you have written 💯 Thank you for shedding some light on these kinda topics💫 keep going you girl🤌🏻

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