Be gentle to you.

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 It is easy to spend much of your days beating up on yourself for past mistakes, we analyze that relationship that failed and relentlessly review everything we did wrong. Once and for all stop being so hard on yourself, you are human being and human beings are designed to make mistakes, as long as you don't keep making the same errors and have the good judgment to let your past serve you, you will be on the right track, accept them and move on as Mark Twain wrote " we should be careful to get out of an experience only the wisdom that is in it - and stop there; least we will be like the cat that sits down on a hot stove lid. it will never sit down on a hot stove lid again- and that is well, but it will never sit down on a cold lit anymore."

Realizing that we all make mistakes and that they are essential to our growth and progress is liberating. we lose the need to be perfect and adopt a saner way of viewing our lives, we can begin to flow through life the way a mountain stream flows through a leafy forest, powerfully yet gracefully. We can finally be at peace with our true nature. 

An excellent way to rise to a higher level of enlightenment and personal wisdom is to make a list of the ten biggest mistakes you have made in your life, on the left-hand side of a page within your journal, then on the right-hand side write down the corresponding lessons you have learned from every mistake and the benefits that actually flowed into your life as a result of those so-called failures, you will soon see that your life would not be as rich and colorful without the mistakes of your past, so be gentler to yourself and see life for what it really it - a path of self-discovery, personal growth and lifelong learning. 

On a bigger picture of life, there is no situation in life as Do or Die, no problem in life is worth dying for or compromising your mental health or yourself for, never lose yourself for anything or any person this is the highest cost you would ever pay, stay gentle to yourself and gentle to people around you, being gentle doesn't mean being careless take charge for your mistakes own it up and learn and promise to make better mistake every time being gentle toward yourself will help you prove yourself you don't need validation from outer world, and it help you love yourself more and hard.

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  1. JesinJanuary 1, 2026 at 2:06 AM

    Impressive, in a new year noon after lunch in office saw the profile in suggestions, status first then into photos at last into this,

    Precious time reading it, because words connect to my visions and life,

    Simple and elegant words to present

    It's a ⭐⭐⭐⭐

    Live long

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