Adult Relationships : Losing and meeting people
I don't know whether I'm alone in thinking that after I turned 21, the people in my life would always be the people in my life. I was no longer able to care about little disputes and passive-aggression. You just reach a point where you say to yourself, "It's not even worth bothering" and you feel like you have better things like a career to focus on. But to what many people think (which includes me), growing older didn't make it any different than I lost certain people —it just altered how it happened and how I felt about it. It's actually the same thing, done a different way with a different mindset. It seems to me that losing people is more about fading away or giving up than it is about arguments, battles, or confrontations these days. Perhaps when someone does something, you just decide that you don't really want to spend out with them if that's the kind of person they are. It's more similar to a "mutual separation" or "amic...